Did you know that 75% off all Women never achieve an orgasm with their partner?
And 10-15% never achieve orgasm in their life.
A point that is both unfair to the receiver as well as the giver.
To begin let’s discuss the health benefits.
When you orgasm the body releases a mixture of chemicals, including oxytocin, norepinephrine, vasopressin, prolactin and serotonin.
This leads to the following…
Assists with Sleep
and even increases longevity.
As you can see, not only are you doing yourself the favor of taking your pleasure seriously, you’re also taking your health seriously.
If you’re concerned that your partner may be faking, please be compassionate. Most studies show that women fake to make their lovers “feel better”. Let’s just say an orgasm isn’t pretty. It should sound and look like a beached dolphin. haha. If it seems a little too controlled and “pretty”, try to open communication with your partner. It also takes the average woman 20 minutes to orgasm.
On that note, next time don’t be afraid to guide and show your partner what you want, and what it takes to help you achieve an orgasm. This gift is a foundation of trust and a great opportunity for clear communication and boundaries! Those boundaries being that you expect pleasure in return. I can assure you a good partner will be grateful.
If you have never achieved an orgasm, don’t be hard on yourself! There are amazing resources online to help you hit the spot! A little DIY can go a long way to understanding your needs.
Please always be safe in your escapades!
xo - Dr. M